First, we landed in a small airport far from the city - not in the big Tocumen International Airport I was planning for, so I had to take a $15 taxi into the city. Then, we drove into this big, clean (in the inner & touristy parts) city with elaborately shaped skyscrapers in all directions...AND, I paid the taxi driver in dollars! It felt like I'd landed in a mini NYC.
I stayed at the first cheap (for Panama) hostel I could find, and found myself surrounded by almost solely Americans - there were some Canadians and Germans in the mix as well. And when I went to the grocery store I found Rice Dream, Tostitos Salsa, even Newman's Own cookies, etc. I really felt some culture shock, and got a bit panicky wanting to leave!
So, after an unbearably hot day and night in this big, expensive (for Latin America) city, I bussed it two hours west to El Valle ("The Valley"), a tiny town situated in the crater of an old volcano. On my bus I met some French Canadians - Victor and his mom Nancy. We all went to Bodhi Hostal - one of the best hostels I've stayed at...and I've been in a fair number of hostels. It's fairly new, but boy could you tell that there was some real heart being put into it and always making little adjustments to improve. Really cool!
I quickly got very close to Victor and Nancy. We spent our whole week there together, hiking up onto the crater for sunsets, going to see the butterfly sanctuary, the orchid nursery, and cooking every meal together. We had a special connection and became very close very quickly.

Each day in the valley brought a new and unexpected adventure on our explorations together: we saw a two-meter-long poisonous snake (still not sure what kind) as soon as we walked out of the "zoo", we saw toucans all around us everyday, we got lost in the mountains, etc.
We also found a new kind of fruit tree every day, where we would then pick many to bring back to share at the hostel! First we found grape fruits, next many many mangos (this source we returned to every day after that!), then a lemon tree, a hidden banana grove, clementines, and oranges!
All the nature around us was so untouched and pure, and put me in a state of awe and appreciation each moment I opened my eyes and heart to it all! It was a much needed week in nature surrounded by pure-hearted, inspiring, loving people which left me smiling, and spreading the warm love I felt! 💜
Victor flew home a few days later, and Nancy came along with me to Costa Rica where she had to catch a flight the day before Mareika was to arrive. We spent a few days on the Pacific coast of Costa Rica - in Dominical and Manuel Antonio, where we mostly just had a calm time on the beach. It was pretty stormy which made for some amazing sunsets and sunrises, but also meant that it was just hot and humid out.
In Dominical I got a huge jellyfish sting, but with the advice and help of some locals, as well as some surfer tourists it quickly went away!
Nancy and I had a very nice time together! Our relationship was a bit like a mother-daughter relationship, yet strong friends! We also helped each other learn our languages (French/English). It was sad to say bye to her, but I know I'll be seeing her soon!
Mareika arrived to San Jose on the 17th, and walked out of the airport to meet me in the pouring rain - probably not what she had in mind for a trip to C America... We spent a nice evening and the next morning in San Jose letting her adjust to all the different things she was now surrounded by, and the next afternoon after Mareika got her nose pierced :) , we took a bus north-west into the mountains.
Monteverde is a small, touristic town surrounded by cloud forests and beautiful wildlife. We ate some typical food there that evening and then slept deeply, exhausted as we were.
The next day we did a canopy tour through the high jungle treetops and over plunging valleys, on high and long zip lines as well as an underground one, and a big tarzan swing...and then at the end we did a 143 meter bungee jump!!! Absolutely nuts!
That night we went out dancing at a bar in town where all the tourists as well as locals went. It was great to get out into that scene together, and to see her get out and dance with some Latinos!
Early the next morning we started our long haul to Isla de Ometepe, Nicaragua. First we took one bus two hours to the main highway where we waited an hour for another bus driving north to get to the border -another five hours. At the border we went through the overwhelming craziness of going to one place to pay the exit tax, walking a distance and stand in line to get our exit stamps from Costa Rica, paying the exit fee, next walking a few km through no man's land (all the while in the blazing hot sun with our bags) to the entrance of Nicaragua, getting more papers to fill out, another long line, country entrance fees, customs, currency exchange, and then running to catch a chicken bus. After an hour on the chicken bus, we had to take a taxi to the ferry dock where we got on a ferry taking us out onto Lake Nicaragua to Ometepe Island - about an hour ride. And then a final taxi van taking us across the island - which is made up of two volcanos. The hostel we were planning to stay at was booked so we walked and walked for another hour (yes, it was still super hot...and no, we hadn't eaten for a veryyy long time) until we finally found a place to stay. It was such a relief to finally make it, and after an big, and delicious dinner we sure slept well that night! Before going to bed though, we stayed outside for a while admiring the fascinating fireflies lighting up the night, and then soon after, the stars! It was pretty magical!
The next day we spent on the "beach", where Mareika tried (a bit too hard) to get her white winter skin tone to match mine. She was pretty pink by the end of the day!
That evening was pizza night at our hostel, meaning we got our full of freshly wood fired, thin crusted, and oh so flavorful pizza!
Afterward, we, Mareika and I along with a few others, went into the woods to admire the fireflies. No one really knows why, but suddenly I heard a thump on the ground next to me, and when I turned on my headlamp, I saw Mareika had fallen off the rock she had been sitting on, and was unconscious on the ground. She had landed with her head on a rock. It scared me so much. I kept her down for a while, and then when I got her up to walk up to our sleeping hammocks, she only made it a few steps before collapsing unconscious again. I watched her all night, and made her drink water....
The next day she said she felt 100%...so, we had a good breakfast, did some yoga, and set off northward to Granada. Six hours later we finally put our bags down in a hostel! That afternoon Mareika started to feel ill, and then she spent the whole evening and night throwing up, not even able to keep the tea, PowerAde, or water I gave her down.
The next morning she woke up feeling the same, and then when she went to take a shower fainted on the tiled shower floor...and then fainted again when she came out looking for me, hitting her head again. :( We went to the doctor who told us that she had a minor concussion and prescribed us powdered milk, kids diarrhea syrup, and nausea medicine with syringes... Strangest doctor visit ever!
That evening I got a fever and was throwing up...and then finally the next day we both started feeling better.
We went to the small town of Masaya just half an hour from Granada for a visit to the amous market there. It turned out to be too much for Mareika as she was just getting her energy back, but I was able to spend a few hours there getting gifts for Mareika to bring back to friends and family (Mareika's not very good at spending $)!
Next we traveled the short distance to the Laguna de Apoyo - a beautiful lagoon in the crater of an old volcano. We stayed at Hostal Paradiso (Paradise) - which is a pretty accurate description, for two days, which we spent swimming and kayaking in the beautiful "lake", and spending chill evenings with new friends!
Next we took a bus to Managua (got some adventurous piercings there) and then took another bus a couple hours further north-west to Leon.
We stayed at a super basic, cheap place for one night and spent that next day walking around, buying bus tickets, going shopping, sending post cards, eating lots, etc! While walking around, Mareika got to experience firsthand how forward some men are around here: a guy grabbed her butt while walking by. It's one thing to hear guys whistling and shouting things at you, and that took some getting used to for her, but it's a whole thing when the touching starts....
We then took a chicken bus (quite an experience), a boat, and a horse and cart to the Surfing Turtle Lodge - a picturesque hostel on the beach on an island, far away from anything! It was sooooo good to finally be on the ocean beach together, swim- get caught in a rip tide!, watch sunsets and sunrises, ride horses along the water's edge, party and dance with travelers and locals, sleep in a tent under the stars, etc. It was so good that we gave up volcano boarding to stay an extra day! Such a great finale to our adventures together!
Our last day together was spent hitchhiking from the beach to Leon, a bus to Managua, and then traveling from Managua, Nicaragua all the way to San José, Costa Rica- including more border crossing drama. Once in San José we cooked our last supper together and hung out in the familiar hostel with former friends, and the morning before her flight we just walked around the city for a few hours, eating lots of good food and weird, new fruits, and doing some last minute gift shopping! :)
At the airport we pigged out on free chocolate testers together, and then said a happy "goodbye"!
Although it's not easy for our whole family to be apart so much, I think we've gotten used to it, made peace with that reality knowing that it's what's best for each and every one of us at this stage, and have learned to make the most of each precious moment we get together!






























































